Choose the one who chooses you? Fuck no!

(fanfic from Harry’s POV)

Girl, no.

I hear this everywhere, “don’t go behind the person who doesn’t put any effort and choose the one who chooses you even if you don’t feel anything for him”.

Fuck, this is the most ridiculous thing I have heard. First and foremost, I would like to clarify, if you don’t feel anything for that person, do not choose him. Is being alone that scary? I mean, is having a partner that necessary?

There is so much more to life than having a partner. Yes, when you are in love it is different cause we want to be with them. But when you aren’t in love, please don’t compromise and settle just for the sake of it.

Choose only the one you love. If it doesn’t work out crying about it and being sad about it is completely normal. If it works out, it is the best thing ever, I assume.

If you ask me getting married is the most easiest thing to do. If I was desperate I would be married by now, but I ain’t. Marrying the one whom I love is the most difficult thing to do. I wanna marry only because I love him and no other reason whatsoever. Anyone who has that in their life is the luckiest and I’m genuinely happy for them.