(fanfic in Harry’s POV)
People are so full of this even if you don’t ask for it.
It’s so easy for people to say, “I don’t have a victim’s mindset” “I don’t hold grudges” “I always think positive” “oh can you just move on”.
Well, if they were in my shoes and went through everything that I did, they wouldn’t be standing there or even be alive for that matter. So I just brush off these criticisms. It’s easy to talk. But before you do just think that have you gone through that shit before talking and commenting. No? then don’t judge and criticize.
Things were not in my hands, no matter how much I grew, no matter how much I tried to make my life good. No matter how good I was with the man I loved. People were always interfering and messing it up. People were always full of unsolicited advises and criticisms. People were always violating my personal rights.
It’s really not easy to be in my shoes, to be constantly fucked up when I didn’t do anything or deserve it to begin with. To be constantly pushed down. To be constantly controlled. It’s really not easy.
Before anyone judges and criticize I want you to know this.