(fanfic in Harry’s POV)
It took me 3 years of therapy and constantly working on myself to learn self love and there is no going back from here.
Self love is recognizing when someone is not treating me right and setting boundaries or cutting them off (whatever suits the situation and person). Self love is learning that when someone says something hurtful it just shows what kind of person “they” are and not questioning my worth.
Self love is standing up for myself and saying fuck you when needed and never regretting it. Self love is learning to say NO. Self love is choosing to do what I want to do and not doing something someone else wants, just so I don’t hurt them.
Self love is learning to set my priorities. Self love is deleting the number of that person who doesn’t reply to my text no matter how many times I reach out. Self love is unfollowing that person who doesn’t value me.
Self love is always always choosing me, everyday and every minute. Self love is taking myself out on a date because I feel like it.
Self love is limiting selflessness only to those who deserve it.
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