(from Harry’s POV)
If you are delusional to take personal meaning out of the things I spoke about people in my past then,
A) you need to see a psychiatrist cause you probably have schizophrenia.
B) you need to see a therapist to learn to be secure in your own skin.
The person who called me a “dead body” at Ministry is so insecure that she projected her insecurity onto me.
I might have met her two times in my life and I couldn’t recognize her because her hair looked different in her photos. The day of the incident she called me and showed me her ID and asked, “do I look different?” I said “yes” and she got really angry and said, “you look like a dead body” twice on my face.
This incident shows how insecure people are in their own skin. I was innocent and I was thinking about her hair cut but she was personalizing it and attacked me. She really needs therapy to feel secure and confident so that she doesn’t think negative whenever someone innocently says something.
Same way a lot of people out there needs therapy but they try to avoid taking accountability and bring down innocent people instead of working on their flaws.
Sit with yourself and think about it.
Honestly if you tell me things like I stare or I’m thin etc I don’t really feel bad or hurt. Because I’m a very secure person. I know who I am. Mostly I don’t identify with what you say to bring me down, so it doesn’t really affect me. It’s all gibberish to me.
I’m secure and confident in my own skin and your words don’t break me.
Instead of attacking people for pointing out your flaws, try to work on yourself and take accountability and apologize.
That’s what normal people do.
rachana rajan <3 