Honestly I hate people who use these words.
When someone has cancer or any other disease and they are suffering and they speak about it and talk about their journey online, will anyone label that person as negative?
I don’t think so and if they do, that person is absolutely inhuman and cruel.
I have been facing a lot of problems which was created around me by others and I faced the consequences of it, when to be honest I was just minding my own business. When I speak or cry about what happened, some people term me as “negative”.
Honestly, if you ask me, the people who use that word are the real negative people. Because they lack empathy and humanness.
It’s 2024 and I cannot believe people still use that word and invalidate your feelings like that.
Every time some uses the word negative, I pray that they should go through exactly the same things I went through because I want to see how they cope with it, honestly no one except for me can cope with it.
There is no such thing as negative or positive. That is so outdated and lame.
Everyone’s feelings and emotions are important and if they are facing something as severe as what I went through and they are talking about it, I would encourage that and I would never invalidate their feelings and shut it off by calling them negative.
Everyone are important and everyone has a right to voice their feelings and talk about their feelings, even if it gets repetitive because I feel after a point of repeating it, it will lose the power to hurt you like it used to and it becomes irrelevant to the one who is speaking it.
If anyone finds me negative, I would please request you to stop reading and watching my content and please respectfully fuck off.
I love myself and my feelings and emotions and thoughts are important and worthy.
I want a community of people who vibe with me and that’s it.
I’m not interested in talking to people who invalidate my feelings and label me and put me in a box.
rachana rajan <3 