(from Harry’s POV)
This is just for my mom to read, everyone else please ignore.
I had a friend at ministry, let’s call him rohit. He never calls me or texts me or puts any effort from his end to be friends with me, I’m the one who always texts, calls and makes the effort.
Every single time I call though, he always complains about everything in his life, from his work, his ex, his family and friends and I always listen and I’m there for him and always encourage him. He hardly asks me questions about my life. Even if I say something about my life he doesn’t reply much, like the encouragement and support I give him.
I’ve noticed every single time I have problems in my life and everyone is well aware of it, that’s when he disappears and doesn’t pick my calls. I’ve noticed it every time. He talks to me only when I’m happy and he complains at that point of time.
Even if my problem is as simple as I have stomach ache, he says he needs space and disconnects the call.
When I say why he isn’t there for me like how I’m there for him, he says he needs his space and he asked me not to tell him anything. But the only thing he talks about when I call him is his problems.
He is even two faced, when we have private conversations, he says things like Oppenheimer is a boring movie and he keeps shouting at his parents and he can never live with them that’s why he is staying alone away from them.
But when our conversations aren’t private, he fakes and says the opposite.
I don’t think this is friendship, so I cut him off.