Toxic colleagues.

There was a person in Ministry, let’s call him Saurabh, he was really disgusting and he would only talk about sexual topics, even to married women. He called me once during covid to complain about all the people who didn’t respond to his messages/calls and other negative topics.

So I deleted his number. He continuously texted me everywhere after that, I don’t know why because we weren’t even friends. His lisp had nothing to do with why I didn’t like him, it’s because of his disgusting character.

There was a person in Ministry, let’s call her Asha D’souza, we used to talk sometimes but every single time we spoke I used to get extremely overwhelmed because she was a negative person.

Once I asked her why she doesn’t text people and she said, “let them come to me”. She was the manager of her team but she was constantly ungrateful about her life and always spoke negatively about everything, so I deleted her number.

There was a person in Askaban, let’s call him Dilip, he took as much advantage of me as he could. He used to meet me only because he wanted to go out and I was paying for him. He used to ask me to buy him things constantly.

I stopped meeting him after I realized what happened.

After I quit Askaban I met him once because I was feeling low and needed a friend. Instead of asking how I am etc, he kept asking me if I had money. I said I had little bit, so he took me to a cafe and made me pay.

After that day I told him I don’t have money left and he ghosted me. No matter how many times I texted him, he didn’t reply to my text.

After one year I got a job at Ministry and posted a picture on instagram and he immediately texted and asked to meet. He told me he is working in a better company now and things are going good. I thought he changed and when I was getting ready to meet, he said he wants me to pay, even though he was earning well. So I stopped talking to him.

We got back in touch two years ago, I came out to him as bisexual and he started complaining about his wife and said that she sucks and she sucks in bed. He said she is boring wife material and doesn’t know to have sex and he wants to have threesome. He continuously texted me after that no matter how much I ignored him saying that if I remember when he kissed me and he is feeling turned on etc.

So I cut him off.

There has been so many incidents like this with so many people.

If anyone is interested in knowing why I stopped talking to people, for the millionth time I request you to ask me, “what happened”