Pattern (continued)

I always think people are good and treat them as a good friend and share things, when it’s never mutual. Most of the time, they don’t have good intentions and don’t know the meaning of friendship.

The solution is to be careful on whom to trust.

I always allow people to dump their trauma on me when they are never available to listen to me.

The solution is to not let people to use me as a trash and trauma dump and draw boundary.