Also, please don’t fall for “I love you”, “I want to marry you” etc etc thinking those are green flags.
Men say that to pretty girls all the time.
I’ve heard that shit so many times but I’m still single because I don’t fall for it.
These are just meaningless words because it doesn’t reflect in their actions and behaviour.
When I look for a partner, I notice and observe each and every thing. I can’t tell you what are the qualities I look for because that’s personal.
So many men I’ve met are characterless and they don’t have the ability to form a connection with an other person, they stick to surface level conversations, they prioritise silly unimportant things, they are fucking desperate and so full of themselves.
They have fucked up ego and they were psychopaths when there was a problem, some were so fucking broken and crazy, they have fucked up values.
They are fucking man child and I have no intention of being their mother or therapist.
Their imperfections makes me want to drive off a cliff.
But when you meet the right person, you just know it. When you know you know.
It not just the butterflies, it’s a strong pull and so many other things that just falls into place and feels easy like breathing.
Anyway, I’m saying this because people need to rethink the term “green flags”.
Because even if they are saying the right things they are fucked up people.
rachana rajan <3 