I think even if mom is triggering me intentionally, it is up to me to not react.
What she does isn’t in my control but my reaction is.
So I should work on my reaction.
The problem with me is, with my parents, once it starts it doesn’t end.
I’ve gone through so much and I will be trying to push things aside and forget with superhuman strength.
A little push and everything flows out and then there is an ocean and I’m drowning.
I do not want to hurt them or get hurt.
I just want an out.
But this shackles of not having money has tied me in place.