My experience with 46 ounces.

Honestly, I never speak to anyone when I go out.

I have no intention of making friends or dating.

I have a lot of problems at home, so I go out for some peace and quiet.

I’m also extremely heartbroken and I’m trying to process my thoughts.

I don’t approach anyone.

But if someone is approaching me that isn’t wrong.

But when they are dumping their shit on me constantly and I’m being empathetic and encouraging.

I expect the same from them.

I never trauma dump. I have never done that to my therapist as well. I have told only 10% to her.

So if I’m reaching out to someone I will be talking only 10%.

If they are not there for me when I need them. Inspite of me constantly being there for them.

I’m sorry but this isn’t friendship.

Also friendship isn’t only about trauma dumping.

I’m not interested in talking about problems in friendship because I always have bigger problems than them.