Note.

I don’t ruthlessly cut people off.

I always give benefit of doubt, I let things slide and forgive.

But once it reaches it’s threshold and I get severely hurt, I let go.

I take time to heal and I do the work.

After that, there’s no looking back.

I’m an overthinker, so if I’m deciding to let someone go, I have thought about it tharoughly and then made the decision.

Alot of things solidify this decision like the pain they caused and their behaviour etc.

You cannot force connections and friendships.

Please read that again.

After I heal and forgive them, I care about them from a distance but I refuse to accept them in my life.

It also depends on the importance, priority and the value they hold in my life.

Please respect my decision and boundaries.