rachana rajan <3

I value my alone time.

Sometimes I don’t feel like talking. I’ll be in my own head. I like to be silent and listen to music and do other things quietly.

I will not be in a mind space to talk to people.

I like my space and boundary.

There is always a time and place to talk about things.

Also, I’m sorry but I’m not interested in listening to anyone’s problems because I always always have bigger problems than them.

I never trauma dump so I expect the same from the other person.

I like to keep things casual and talk about things like nature, universe, books, movies, music and other things I love. Like how I talk on my YouTube.

There are so many things that people I knew in the past talk about that I absolutely have no interest in.

Like personal life details of people they know, making everything sexual and dirty and so many topics that is so off putting.

Sometimes when I talk to someone I get overwhelmed and drained after speaking to them.

I’m not like everyone else. I have a lot of problems.

I don’t like hurting anyone so if it’s not working out, I silently remove them from my phone and life.

Please don’t take things personally.

That doesn’t mean I don’t like them. I always love and care about everyone from a distance.

Also, as I mentioned before it’s not humanly possible for me to accept everyone in my life and close circle.

Please respect my space.

Also, I’ve already told you why and how I decide to cut someone off.

If it’s not working, people should just let go. Sometimes things don’t work out, that’s the way of life.

You can’t force your place in someone’s life. You can’t force someone to fall in love with you.

It should happen organically.

As long as they are respectful. Don’t hold grudges and learn to love from a distance and move on with your life.