I’m okay listening to someone’s problems when they are important to me.
Because I’m good at problem solving, encouraging and uplifting people.
But I expect the same from them in time of my need.
I never trauma dump because I don’t like getting advices.
Even if I talk it will only be 5-10% of what happened.
I’m spiritually elevated and most of the time I have answers to my problems.
The only thing I want when I have problems is someone who loves me.
Because love heals me.
If a person can’t do this basic thing when I’m always there for them.
I’m sorry I refuse to call this friendship.