If someone is spending their time and energy into writing a book, it is valuable.
Not every book that you read need to have a purpose or need to be meaningful or even change the world.
Sometimes it can just be a light silly book that you read when you are in the mood for it.
It’s just like the movies.
Not all movies are deep and meaningful, right?
Sometimes it’s a silly christmas movie which is like a guilty pleasure to feel all christmasy in the beginning of December.
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I feel people should not obssess over making a difference or having a purpose.
It will happen when it has to happen.
Like how James Clear mentions in his book, it’s the system and not the goal that we need to focus on.
Yes, we need to set goals in life and work towards it, I’m not denying that.
We should be allowed to be awkward and silly too. We should have the room to make mistakes.
People should loosen up a bit you know?
Not take life so seriously. It’s not necessary that you have to constantly walk with purpose.
Sometimes you can just bullshit with someone whom you are comfortable with and be silly.
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We leave our mark in the souls that we touch during this lifetime, just make sure that you leave something good.
Even if you didn’t, you can always go back and try to make it good, if you care.
You don’t necessarily have to leave a mark on this world. Maybe not everyone has a voice to do that, even if they are good.
So you should just focus on those around you.
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Also, I always have love in me and I love everyone from a distance.
If you practice this, you would be able to be empathetic and kind always.
It’s not necessary that you have to allow everyone you speak to in your life.
You can maintain a distance and love them from a distance. Keep it casual.
When you feel comfortable and safe, keep them and maybe then you can open up about things that matters.
You should not hold grudges over this.
We live in a world with millions and millions of people. Not everyone is for everyone.
We are constantly socializing and engaging with people.
Sometimes when we speak, things might not work out and when it doesn’t you can just keep your distance and love them from a distance.
You should not have animosity in your heart over this. Also, don’t spread things about them because you are feeling bitter over the fact that they don’t want to be your friend.
Everyone has their own close circle who love them and we should just focus on that.
Our value doesn’t depend on who accepts us and who don’t.
We are valuable on our own.
This is how you maintain harmony.
rachana rajan <3 