Note.

I don’t believe in trauma bonding because I always have bigger problems.

Also, she has been continuously telling me all her problems since the very first time we spoke.

And consistently every single time I went there.

I always have headaches when I go there because I had a lot of things going on in my life which was serious.

I had bigger problems than her.

I wasn’t in a mindspace to listen to her constantly vent.

Honestly, I don’t do what she did to me even to my therapist.

Whatever she was doing was too overwhelming.

I cannot call this friendship because there was no connection.

Her consistently telling me her problems isn’t what I call friendship.

That’s what happens in therapy not friendship.

There was absolutely nothing between us apart from this.

Also, it became really serious where she spoilt my reputation by using my bisexuality against me and I was constantly sexually assaulted by men.

I was going to die so many times.

So many serious things happened to me.

Hence, now I don’t like her.

I have love and care for her as a human being from a distance, but I cannot do more than this.

There was nothing between us to fight for it as well.

I’m not saying this because she is a waitress, I would say the same thing for no matter who it is.

I don’t differentiate people like that.