rachana rajan <3

Taking advantage of someone’s kindness and empathy and forcing yourself in their life to dump on them constantly without respecting them is not friendship.

When there is nothing else happening in this relationship apart from this, it is definitely not friendship.

I’m not saying venting to a friend is wrong. If someone likes me and wants to be my friend it isn’t wrong as well.

There’s a time and place for everything.

I was expected to be available for a complete stranger who was taking advantage of my kindness when I was suffering from something serious myself.

I wasn’t in a mindspace to make space to make place for a stranger who was using me continuously as a doormat.

Inspite of this, I was kind.

Also, I expect respect in friendship.

That wasn’t present. My space and boundaries were not respected. It was extremely abusive.

My bisexuality was used against me and my reputation was spoilt by this person.

I was constantly sexually assaulted and harrassed because of this person’s lies and manipulations.

People even wanted me dead.

There was no friendship in the picture to begin with, this person is lying if she is saying we are friends.

I have never felt any genuine connection, love or care from this person.

I was just used and abused.