This can go on till I die.
I haven’t done anything wrong and my values are always good.
Just because I love Ginny unconditionally, doesn’t mean I will be okay with her taking sides with someone whom she doesn’t know.
And hurting me like this based on that.
I have clearly explained everything and expressed my reasons for not wanting to be friends with someone, which is my personal choice based on my personal experience with an individual.
If I do not have a good experience interacting with someone and it has only been traumatic, overwhelming and draining.
Also, if I have never felt comfortable or safe in their presence.
If I have never felt comfortable to open up to them.
Also, if I have not felt any genuine love, care and connection with them.
Keeping my distance from them is my personal choice.
Also, when someone hurts me continuously, I will most definitely retaliate.
After I heal, I do forgive them and care and love them as a human being.
But again, it is my personal choice if I want to accept them in my life based on my experience with them.
This doesn’t reduce anyone’s value as a person because everyone are valuable and important to this world.
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If there are any misunderstandings and anyone is desperately wanting to clear it, they can reach out and clear it.
Instead of the world continuously hurting me on their behalf, they should reach out and clear whatever they want to say.
They should not expect me to text them because I have not done anything wrong and I have been extremely clear about everything.
The concerned person should be the one reaching out.
If I want to be friends with them after they clear the misunderstanding is again my personal choice based on the factors I expressed above.
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I don’t think I will reach out to Ginny again because she hurt me a lot.
I didn’t sleep last night.
I haven’t done anything wrong and I have been extremely clear about everything here.
She has to make it up to me because I’m really hurt.
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rachana rajan <3 