Feelings are not permanent and it’s ever changing.
Even if I feel suicidal at times. It is just a feeling and the feeling doesn’t last, if I have the strength and courage to get through the feeling and let it pass.
If I don’t like someone because of some reason, that feeling can change with effort, love, care, changed behaviour and a genuine apology.
Whatever we feel will not last forever.
When we love someone and we are married or in a long term relationship, there will be days when we might not feel so strongly about that person.
But if we stick it out, the love comes back organically.
Sometimes when we are close to someone, we might not like them when they say something. But genuine love and care will still be there in the picture.
So if we stick it out and there’s an effort, the liking comes back organically.
It’s all about the commitment to stick it out and put in the efforts. Show the love and care that we have and things will eventually be good.
Most importantly, learn to drop your ego when you care.
If a hard conversation is required, have the conversation and clarify.
If an apology is required, learn to say sorry.
This can work wonders in saving a relationship. Romantic or not romantic.
rachana rajan <3 