rachana rajan <3

I don’t like certain people for what they did/said and what I had to go through because of them.

I’m not even sorry about it.

Forgiveness is subjective and I have moved on from it.

Moving on and letting it go without forgiving is also a thing.

I’m indifferent about their existence.

They are in a different universe and I prefer it that way.

Please stop forcing forgiveness, it will happen if it is meant to happen organically.

I’m not really concerned about it.

Because I’ve moved on from it.

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Also, everyone is not for everyone.

It’s not necessary that I have to like everyone I speak to.

Based on the personal experience with a person not liking someone is quite normal.

I do not like to be forced into liking someone and interacting with them.

Whom I allow in my life and whom I don’t is entirely my decision based on my experience with that person.

I’m entitled to this decision just like everyone else on this planet.

So please stop forcing me and controlling my life.

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Please stop being hypocritical.

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Instead of forcing connection with me and chasing me, when I show no interest in allowing them in my life because I don’t feel the connection or rapport.

They should focus on nurturing the connections they already have.

Their value doesn’t depend on if I want them in my life or not.

They are valuable just like everyone else in this world.

Sometimes when we speak to someone things don’t work out.

Sometimes the conversations aren’t easy with them, sometimes our values don’t align, sometimes there is absolutely no connection and it’s a baseless relationship.

So you need to learn to take a step back, let go and move on like a mature adult.

If the connection isn’t happening, learn to let go and move on.

Stop forcing and being desperate.

Stop controlling.

All that is bullshit.

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I love everyone as a human being from a distance, I care about their well being, successes and everything else.

I’m mindful about whom I allow in my life and close circle.

I like to keep it healthy, respectful, a safe and trusting place.

I’ve already spoken about it.

I care about my peace of mind above all.

I’m entitled to the decision on whom I allow in this space.

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