Note.

I was tremendously traumatized because of what happened these last few months.

I worked on it and came out of it with immense willpower.

I don’t like staying stuck and I know I’m innocent so there was no question of giving up.

I persisted and held on.

Fought and solved my problems one by one.

I’m stronger now.

Once you have the determination to come out of the trauma and heal, you do become stronger.

So yes, trauma does make you stronger once you do the work and heal.

(The whole point of writing this blog is to say this. I’m not trying to be show off.)

I feel my personality is much stronger than before after what happened. I’ve lost some of my innocence too.

My physical strength is contrary to my mental strength.

My stamina sucks.

Also,

Please don’t copy me by licking your lower lips, that’s a trauma response after what happened, I’m trying to stop.

I started biting my lips too.

I’m try to get rid of these habits.

It’s been stressful.

….

If anyone got offended because of what I said about certain people in my life.

I would like to say this.

I personally feel our personalities are what we make of it.

When someone describes you, like how I described the people I knew, it is not a definite defining personality.

We are an ever changing story.

That’s the best part.

We keep changing and growing.

It’s never too late to say or do the right thing.

You decide who you are and whom you want to be and start from there.

Pick up new habits, hobbies and interests.

Define your personality yourself and whom you want to be.

Work on yourself consistently and become that.

Keep learning and educating yourself.

Most importantly, unlearn things about yourself that you don’t particularly like.

Because let’s face it,

We all have/had certain habits or qualities that might be negative and toxic.

I was a negative person many many years ago too because of the accident with Voldemort.

I had extreme abandonment and trust issues after that accident and I was extremely broken.

So I put up with all kinds of behaviours even if they were destroying me as long as they didn’t leave me.

But it changed when I decided to change the narrative of my life and took active measures and action to change.

So don’t stay stuck, change the narrative of your life.

Start new.

Don’t be stuck on a definite defination.

Be a phoenix.

It’s your story and you are the main character of your story.

You can be whoever you want to be and you and only you decide that.