rachana rajan <3

I literally pointed at the sweatshirt and looked at it and squeeked “its so cute” few times, before speaking to the manager and asking one for me.

No one created any drama by saying, I looked at their breast because I was clear with my words and actions. It was within context.

I was kind to them so many times and asked their names, where do they stay and so many other questions.

We were keeping the conversation casual.

They always respected my space and boundaries.

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With Winni the only thing I said is “the color is nice”. I looked at her tshirt sleeve for less than a fraction of second to see the colour and said it.

And she created so much drama.

I was kind to her on the second day and she literally called me home.

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I’m not the problem.

It’s the person at the receiving end and how their mind works.

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The same way I was with Dhruv, I was with Sid.

I have told Sid I love him platonically, I miss him etc. He used to tell me too.

We were good friends.

We even kissed 2 times.

This was few years ago.

When things ended, we ended it like two mature adults.

But Dhruv created drama and trauma.

I wasn’t even that close to Dhruv as I was with Sid.

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I am not the problem, it’s people’s mentality and lack of positive experiences.

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