People in the past are just shifting the focus to me and my flaws and using my past misunderstandings as a weapon against me.
To avoid accountability.
I’ve spoken about everything and put forth every possible thing.
When people are bitter and things don’t go their way or when they are confronted with the truth.
They turn tables.
….
There is always good conversation and bad conversations with everyone.
I’ve had good conversations even with Voldemort, Lucius, Bellatrix, Draco etc.
It’s just a ratio of what overpowers what.
When the bad experiences are more, it clouds the good.
When the good is amplified, you can show grace and ignore the bad.
And there is a lot of other things that comes into the picture as well.
The pattern that I see in their behaviour, how they behave during certain situations, how they handle conflicts and misunderstandings, there way of thinking, is their ego bigger than their head etc etc.
Everything that I do and decide is done after a lot of thinking and processing.
I notice, observe and study more than people realise.
I know what’s best me and what’s not because it’s my personal life decision and it’s my choice and my choice entirely.
rachana rajan <3 