Note.

If you are a bit heavy weighted or bald or probably dark skinned or you have a pimple or something of that sort.

And you are insecure about these things.

The first thing you need to understand is,

The negative thought loop in your mind is happening only inside your mind.

No one else is thinking these things because everyone are thinking about themselves, their priorities and life.

Also,

As I mentioned previously this problem is deep rooted in the way the society has been functioning.

So probably these thoughts were put inside your head by someone at a early age, a bully or someone around you.

Or probably you are comparing yourself to others and ruminating about all the things you are lacking comparatively and feeling you are not good enough.

So the solution for this is to firstly understand this.

No matter how you look externally, it doesn’t matter as long as you are attractive internally.

If you have an attractive personality, no one will care if you slouch or you are bald etc.

So first thing to do is work on yourself and keep improving and learning.

And grow.

Be your best self.

Heal your trauma and everything else I have mentioned previously since the beginning.

Like how to be in a social setting and stop attacking each other etc.

Also,

What I mentioned previously about.

You don’t get to choose how you look but you get to make the best of how you look.

I have already spoken about these things.

But I wanted to add few more things.