I spoke to two customer service associates today from H&M.
I wanted to share what I observed as it might help people.
The first was a female associate and then a male associate.
I don’t remember their names hence I’m referring to them as this.
Anyway.
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Both of them gave me the same resolution and said the same things but the resolution by the male associate was satisfactory.
Because,
- The female associate over apologized and prefixed each sentence with “sorry ma’am” even though her tone and words didn’t suggest the same.
- When I asked to speak to the manager she started giving excuses and saying contradictory things.
- When I asked for a confirmation email, she repeated the same things over and over again and ended the call saying she gave a resolution.
- She even used the right words like “definitely”.
Even though she gave a resolution it was not satisfactory.
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Where as the male associate did the same thing effortlessly.
- He did not over apologize.
- He did not give contradictory statements about the manager.
- He validated my feelings which was the best thing that he did and calmed my anxiety. It was his power move.
- He was clear, concise and confident with his words.
- He sounded professional and the conversation went in a flow like water.
He gave the same resolution but it was satisfactory.
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Why I’m speaking about this is because I feel what happens in customer service needs to change and has scope for improvement.
I don’t call the customer service to speak to robots who repeat things written on their computer screen.
And say “sorry” and “I understand” without meaning it even a bit with a dead pan voice.
I call them to speak to a human being.
They should be able to empathize, put the customer first, deep dive into the problem and give a solution and validate our emotions.
And also things which might be required.