rachana rajan <3

Whatever I said in my previous blogs is how I have been thinking in the past.

Don’t follow everything I say blindly.

You should learn to take what helps and leave the rest.

I keep changing and growing.

So the way I think might change too.

It’s not written in stone.

It’s true and holds in the past.

But we keep evolving as humans and we need to keep adapting with changing times.

My advices help you now but it might become outdated after couple of years.

So we should always keep growing and changing with the changing times and gather more information to help deal with the current pressing issues.

I don’t know if I’m making sense.

Also,

All this doesn’t apply to the people I love.

I always love unconditionally and I’m always the last man standing.

Meaning, I always stay and don’t give up.

Just that,

I’m really mindful about whom I allow in my life, that’s where all these thought processes apply.

I think this way because I was betrayed left, right and centre in the past.

So yeah, I learnt my lesson and I started placing boundaries and being mindful.

I take a lot of time.

I don’t give away labels and unconditional love like candy during halloween.

I love everyone in my community from a distance as a friend, yes.

But personally it’s soooo different.

I do see a lot of things online and around me and I do care, but it’s really difficult to engage with everyone because I’m a human being and I have a lot of problems to add to that.

Hence I have to place this boundary with everyone so that I can be sane and go on with my life normally and not break.

I’m sorry I cannot engage like how others do.

This is the most and best I can do.