Also,
I don’t want any princess and queen treatment from my partner.
Like opening the door for me and pulling my chair to sit and showering me with gifts and roses etc.
No.
I’d rather my partner laughs and jokes when I fall down or hit my head. Call me bitch, not in a bad way but you know what I mean. Wrestle me and be playful. Play in the rain together. Makes impromptu plans and doesn’t give a fuck about anything etc.
I can open my own door and pull my chair myself and buy whatever I want myself, thank you very much.
I do like giving gifts but I prefer thoughtful gifts over expensive gifts anyday.
I want my partner to be my bestfriend. I don’t need princess treatment.
If you think differently, that’s alright. Everyone are not the same.
But this is what I like.
Caring for me is needed but I don’t want to be taken care of and be pampered.
Not more than necessary.
I like and prefer the friendship and play element.
That’s what I look for.
rachana rajan <3 