Note.

Someone not wanting to be your friend or be in a relationship with you, isn’t betrayal.

Betrayal cuts deeper than that.

As I mentioned previously,

Everyone isn’t for everyone and you are not going to like everyone whom you speak to.

The person you speak to is a totally different individual with different mind and different way of functioning, upbringing etc.

Sometimes the vibe will be off or the energy or something of those sorts.

Sometimes even if you like them, you wouldn’t be compatible.

And since it’s casual, you just take a step back.

We feel what we feel, we can’t force feelings.

And that’s alright.

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Betrayal is what Voldemort, Lucius, Peter Pettigrew, Lockhart etc did to me.

It cuts deeper.

Someone playing you, manipulating or doing you dirty etc is what is called as betrayal.

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When someone crosses your threshold and you confront them isn’t betrayal too.

You are confronting because either,

You care about the relationship and you are asking for a clarification to make it work.

Or because that person hurt you way too much and you are asking for a clarification and saying, these things hurt me and it’s not allowed.

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I dated couple of men who were interested in me but I wasn’t.

Since I didn’t make any promises or say anything to give false hopes or lead them on.

It’s okay.

Because when you match with someone on an app or meet someone, doesn’t mean you like them by default.

You have to meet, spend time and talk, to like and understand them.

And when you find out that, this isn’t what I’m looking for, you move on.

This isn’t betrayal.

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This is what I feel.