Note.

Human feelings are flexible.

Someone can go from hating you to liking you, with time.

Also,

from liking you to hating you.

And so on.

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So you don’t have to consider it to be the end of the world when someone hates you,

because you can always redeem yourself.

Anything can be fixed with a genuine apology, accountability, changed behaviour and growth.

And the effort and care that you put in to clear the misunderstandings.

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When someone loves you, it’s precious and you need to take care of it.

Because it might not be forever unless you put in the work to maintain it by dedicating time, energy and efforts.

Even if you fuck up from time to time, like all humans do.

It’s okay.

It can be fixed when you care and love.

When there is a connection and genuine love, please don’t give it up without fighting for it.

When you know and it feels right.

Because it’s very rare and valuable.

We might feel we’ll find it again because of the endless options, but that’s not always the case.

There is no such thing as a special person.

You make the person special by loving them, it’s your love and theirs that comes together to make it special.

It’s better to adress the issue and grow together.

Than dating a bunch of people and encounter the same problem over and over again, to realise there is no escape unless you address it.

It’s going to be the same problem but with a different person.

And later, regret letting the right person go.

Only you know what’s right for you because you are the one who is experiencing your life.

So you need to think things through yourself.

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This is how I think.