Note.

A promise is, “I will definitely meet you one day.”

Asking a person,

“I’m going out, do you want to join me.”

Is not a promise.

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Imagine you are speaking to someone and you make plans with that person 2 times but the plan doesn’t happen.

After two times you stop because that person is a random stranger and a nobody who was forcing you.

After that you get to know that person is a predator and a psychopath.

So you cut that person off.

That person is supposed to stay away because now the dynamic of that particular friendship has changed.

You are not signing a contract with everyone you speak to, to be best friends forever.

You are allowed to take a step back, outgrow disengage and change your mind,

based on their behaviour and actions.

When you do that the dynamic has changed.

Just because Robert pattinson took his stalker out for dinner.

Imagine that stalker keeps stalking him aggressively saying you made false promises and gave false hopes by taking me for dinner.

And harasses him and punishes him and forces herself in his life etc.

How fucked up and psychotic is that?

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People need to understand when the dynamic of a friendship/relationship has changed and behave accordingly.

The dynamic keeps changing based on the behaviour and actions of both the people involved.

It’s not going to be the same forever.

We have to keep up with the dynamics.

That’s the basic code of conduct.