I’ve said it before, saying it again.
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Why do you have to attack and defeat people when they don’t want to be your friend or in a relationship with you?
Why can’t you just be an adult and both of you take a step back and maintain the peace and harmony?
I’ve noticed this a lot man.
People break their heads for stupid first world problems.
If it’s not working it’s not working.
Take a step back, simple.
Why attack? why defeat? why kill even?
Why are you breaking your head over temporary people?
you’re going to meet hundreds of people in your lifetime.
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Most of the problems are because of misunderstandings, as I mentioned previously.
Misunderstandings are seen through the lens of assumptions and insecurities and they simply project that and hurt intentionally.
And start sparring.
Gosh man.
You should learn this in middle school.
Love (platonically) and respect people from a distance.
Keep it casual unless there’s a connection.
If it’s not working, take a step back and move on.
It’ll hurt, but you’ll survive.
Don’t act on each and every thought you have.
Understand when there are negative thoughts and work on healing them.
Understand when a thought is trash and trash it.
It’s all mind over matter.
Control your mind and it’s easy to ride the wave.
Learn self love and self respect.
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If you don’t like someone for something petty, it’s literally okay.
It doesn’t make you a villain unless you do them dirty.
It’s okay to accept that you don’t like them because everyone isn’t for everyone.
You don’t have to play games, twist the reality and play the victim card.
Whom you allow in your close circle is your choice.
If you don’t like someone because you are bitter or jealous or something petty or whatever it might be.
Disengage.
Simple.
Why all these games?
rachana rajan <3 