When you are getting married or getting into a relationship,
Unless it’s a “fuck yessss”, it should be a no.
Irrespective of age or whatever other factors.
Love yourself and your own company so much that you recognise when someone is not for you and say no.
You should be okay either way.
If you have needs, there is nothing wrong in meeting your needs with consent.
But yeah.
Unless it’s a fuck yessss, it’s a no.
If it’s a fuck yessss, it means that you love that person so much that you will not even think about cheating.
I don’t know why people cheat.
This is what I have understood from whatever I have observed.
But idk.