Kindness, empathy, trust, compassion is the pre-requisite for me to date someone.
If they care about your day and you enjoy talking to them and can go on speaking forever with comfortable silences in between.
If you love the thought of coming home to them.
Because they are easy to be with and love spending time with them.
If their imperfections don’t make you wanna drive off a cliff but you are okay with them and also like some of it.
This means you have a great connection and rapport.
Connection doesn’t necessarily mean you need to find a similarity.
It just means you vibe well.
Ginny is the best person I know.
I love how her mind works, she is really smart.
She’s kind, empathetic and sweet.
She doesn’t shit talk about her exes, which is one quality I really like about her.
I said something mean about her ex and she started defending her ex.
She doesn’t gossip or smoke.
She is a gentleman who doesn’t make everything sexual and doesn’t get drunk when you are with her.
She is so damn beautiful, not just on the outside but inside too.
She has the ability to take accountability when something goes wrong and apologise.
She doesn’t have a big ego, which I love.
She doesn’t give importance to social media and petty social media stuff.
She is old school like me.
She doesn’t sext or ask for nudes.
She isn’t desperate.
She has really innocent expressions which I love.
I can see myself sitting next to her reading my book in silence while she studies.
I can see myself watching stuff with her.
I can see a future with her and be happy about it.
It’s a fuck yessss for me.
I love what she prioritizes and her values.
We have great connection.
I feel really comfortable with her and I can open up to her about anything without being judged.
I don’t feel anxious around her.
She is my safe space and best friend.
With her respect is always on the table even when she doesn’t like me.
I love her smile, laugh, eyes.
I love her so much.
rachana rajan <3 