I forgot to tell you about Chintu.
We met on a date a few weeks before I met Ginny.
We liked each other and even did stuff in his car.
It was amazing and I wanted to date him.
But because of some external reasons we didn’t date.
I was upset for a while and moved on.
We decided to stay friends and we were good friends.
After I met Ginny, we didn’t speak much.
During my serial dating phase after Ginny left for Canada,
we would flirt occasionally.
I wanted to meet him.
This was in 2023.
He suggested we “do it” but more like a friends with benefits kinda way.
I said no because as you know, I don’t have sex unless I’m in love.
After a while, we phased off.
He is really really attractive.
If I wanted it, I could have.
But I didn’t.
Because I’m not deprived of physical intimacy.
You can talk to him.
If I want it, it’s so easy and effortless. You have no idea.
But I don’t want it.