Note.

The thing about being best friends with men is that,

you can’t stay close after they get into a relationship or get married.

Because priorities change.

You cannot speak like how you used to speak before.

It isn’t good for a guy to have a girl best friend after they find someone.

It isn’t good for the girl to have a guy best friend too.

It isn’t going to be like how it was when you both were single and you would speak all the time.

We need to be respectful and mindful and give them their space.

This is a part of growing old.

Priorities change.

A little bit of ghosting here and there also happens.

If they know how to keep it platonic and drama free, you can stay in touch every now and then.

You will always be best friends even if you speak or not speak.

So many of my guy friends who were close drifted away after they got married and we lost touch.

It’s best to find that friendship in your partner because they are the ones who are going to be there till the very end.

They are your priority and best friend.

As it should be.