Ginny is not perfect.
Just like everyone else on this planet including me.
I’m not interested in speaking about her imperfections on a public platform.
But I want you to know this.
Her good qualities outweigh her imperfections.
I’m okay with her flaws and I can live with them.
Hence it’s a fuck yessss.
No one is going to be 100% compatible with you.
Literally no one.
You need to remember this while dating/making friends.
You are going to have good conversations and bad conversations with every single person you speak to.
It’s the ratio.
If the good conversations are more.
Then chuck the bad outside the window and forget about it.
Please don’t keep score.
If the bad is more, it’s time to take a step back and reflect.
You guys know Ginny and don’t know her at the same time.
I don’t know if you’ve noticed but I have not shared any personal information about her.
I just speak about my love for her and things I like about her.
It’s the same with people who were good to me.
I just briefly spoke about them.
I’ve just spoken about things crucial to clearing the misunderstandings and slander.
It’s difficult to speak about every single detail.
There were so many incospicuous and mundane days.
There were a lot of good memories too.
I know I have faced more than my fair share of hardships.
But life wasn’t all gloomy and rain.
There was sun and rainbows sometimes.
It was less but it was there.
The reason I’m telling you this is because,
I want you to understand when I say I love someone, platonic or romantic, it wasn’t perfect with them.
I’ve had misunderstandings and conflicts.
But the good was more.
Also, they mean a lot to me.
They have added value to my life and they’ve been there for me.
Hence when there are conflicts we don’t hold it against each other.
We apologise and move past it.
They don’t play stupid games.
I can trust them.
When you find someone good and there is a connection, please fight for that relationship/friendship.
Connections don’t happen easily.
I’ve had an extremely social life.
But the times I’ve truly felt connected, seen and understood and loved were rare.
When you find someone like that, please drop your ego and fight.
If it doesn’t work, then move on.
At least you’ll have that satisfaction.
Don’t let go of people blindly whenever there’s a conflict.
I’ve had conflicts with everyone in my close circle.
It’s a part and parcel of a healthy and close relationship.
rachana rajan <3 