I think Pettigrew’s definition of friendship is different from my definition of friendship.
Maybe she considers everyone whom she speaks to as her friend.
I need to feel a sense of connection and rapport and trust and safety to use that word.
Because a friend is a valuable word for me.
Also,
We barely spoke.
I’ve had much more profound connections with men whom I’ve casually dated.
She was just a random person in a random restaurant and she caused so much trauma and drama.
God man.
I didn’t understand why I was being sexually assaulted initially.
You can read my blogs again from August till October.
I kept repeating,
“please ask me what happened.”
“I’m not attracted to women IRL.”
I didn’t know that she lied.
I didn’t know that the law was involved.
I realised what was happening only in October.
People could have handled it better.
I’m grateful to God that I didn’t die and I was able to finish my story.
I’m so grateful that everyone helped me.
Now I can die peacefully whenever it happens.