If I want it, it’s easy and effortless.
I’ve said this a million times.
I want you to understand it.
Because it’s true.
I’m not really interested in a disgusting filthy creepy waiter.
Also,
It wasn’t written on her forehead that she’s bisexual.
This is not what one expects when you go to a restaurant.
That too from a waiter.
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I was constantly drawing non verbal boundaries so that she stopped approaching me.
Because her energy was off since day 1.
I never disrespect anyone.
I don’t know how to dismiss a person when they are constantly approaching me, even after clearly saying no non-verbally.
She was not taking no for an answer.
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The only thing I spoke to her about is the coffee, trees, weather and my laptop.
And I asked random questions.
I didn’t speak to her about anything else.
Because she was not my friend.
She was forcing the friendship.
There was absolutely no love bombing from my end.
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When she gave me something to eat when I was hungry.
I returned the favour and tried being friends for a short period.
We were not friends, I tried being friends.
There’s a difference.
I asked her to join me 2 times when I was stepping out.
She said she’s busy and the plan got cancelled.
So I stopped like a normal person.
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She used to wear a disgusting men’s uniform with a stain on it. She was cribbing about her uniform since day 2.
So when she got promoted and wore a new uniform, I complimented it as a good gesture to empathize with her.
I complimented her display picture as well because I’m a girl’s girl.
I always lift up other women.
But her energy was completely off.
I realised she was trying to lure me and immediately deleted her number.
And cut her off.
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When someone calls you home and you decline their invitation one or two times, a normal person will stop asking.
She was continuously repeating the same thing like a broken record.
She kept asking me to go to her house like a psychopath. She continuously asked me 8 times.
She would keep looking at me with her mouth open and eyes bulging out and force me to go to her house and start moaning.
That’s how I got to know she’s a predator and a psychopath.
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After I cut her off.
She behaved sadistic and hurt me for not complying to her pathological force.
The next time I went there she approached me again and forced me to meet her even after that.
I politely rejected her and told her I’m not interested in being friends.
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The next time I went there after things worked out for me.
I had fought with mom and I was in a bad mood.
She approached me again even after clearly saying I’m not interested.
The whole world knew things worked out for me, it wasn’t a secret.
She started behaving sadistic and attacked me because of jealousy.
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I immediately called her after going home.
She attacked me again till I kept the phone.
I complained to the manager because I was sexually assaulted.
I didn’t understand why I was sexually assaulted.
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After I spoke to the manager.
She immediately texted saying, “I’m sorry I’ll lose my job”
I said please stop texting me.
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I went to the restaurant 6 times after that.
I completely forgot about her.
The staff gave me a card and forced me to speak to her.
So I complained to the ops manager.
But I stayed quiet about what she did because she said sorry.
She recently got promoted and I didn’t want her to lose her job.
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I didn’t know the law was involved.
I didn’t know she lied about me.
I didn’t understand why I was being sexually assaulted.
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I realised what was going on only in October.
After that, I spoke the truth and I proved it.