Based on whatever I saw online and what I’ve understood from my interactions with Pettigrew.
I feel she has trouble understanding the code of conduct and also she’s misguided.
I also feel she lacks social experiences and is deprived of kindness and empathy.
From whatever conversations I had with her I feel she has trouble understanding things and she isn’t mature.
She has a lot of ego.
She has main character syndrome.
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This is what I have observed.
Because.
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Usually when I delete someone’s number and unfollow them on Instagram.
They kinda understand that I’m not interested and stop speaking to me.
I’ve spoken to a lot of people in my life.
Every time I want to stop speaking to someone, I delete their number and unfollow them.
And they get it.
But Pettigrew wasn’t taking no for an answer.
I don’t understand why.
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I feel it’s because she doesn’t really understand this basic thing.
Maybe it’s because she lacks social experiences.
I’m not sure.
Or maybe she didn’t want to understand.
Because she had been feeding false narratives to everyone in the restaurant and shit talking about me.
She wanted to maintain the false narrative, so she was twisting the reality.
She was under the delusion that I was going to that restaurant to speak to her.
I’m not sure because she clearly knew I was a regular there and I went there 6 times after we stopped speaking.
I’m not really sure what she was doing to be honest.
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I’ve already cleared my part.
You need to ask her why she did whatever she did and take action accordingly.