I hate to break it to you but most people are stupid.
I mean most people I’ve interacted with.
I’m not that smart but if the world is filled with such people, I might as well be smart.
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People lack comprehension skills, they lack attention and clarity, the ability to understand a context, the skill to agree to disagree, the ability to take difference in opinion maturely, the ability to handle conflicts.
Etc.
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This is why I rejected most of the men I met while dating.
Because I hate having surface level conversations. I cannot for the life of me.
I’m the kind of person who likes to go deep.
They lack depth.
They lack the ability to form connections.
I wanted someone who is smart.
Ginny is smart.
She is everything I want in a partner and more.
She is not perfect but the best person I know.
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Even in friendships, I hate surface level friendships. They are always casual.
Unless there’s a connection I don’t really consider them as friends.
I don’t use the word friend loosely.
I cannot for the life of me be friends with someone who doesn’t understand me or my words.
I cannot keep translating my soul to a shallow person who lacks comprehension.
I hate people who bring drama and toxicity.
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Just because someone is a creepy fan and desperate to be my friend doesn’t mean I should comply.
My close circle is sacred and a temple.
I cannot man.
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Also,
I’m extremely picky when it comes to my romantic likings.
I see a lot of things.
I’m a woman of class.
I don’t like every single Tom Dick and Harry.
I’m way too classy and sophisticated for this shit.