Since I tried being friends briefly after she gave me something to eat.
And asked Pettigrew to join me 2-3 times when I was stepping out.
That’s why she is using the word friend.
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But this doesn’t qualify as friendship for me.
I’ve already given you my definition of the word friend.
I don’t use the word friend loosely.
I’ve had much more profound connections with men whom I’ve casually dated.
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Also, whatever she’s feeling is para social.
Because we barely spoke.
She was constantly overstepping my boundaries and space and forcing me since day 1.
I was constantly pushing her politely.
I was constantly drawing non verbal boundaries.
Because her energy was off.
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I didn’t dismiss her whenever she approached me because I don’t disrespect anyone.
I don’t know how to dismiss a person who is constantly approaching me even after clearly saying that I’m not interested in non verbal boundaries.
The only thing I spoke to her about are trees, coffee, laptop and weather and I asked random questions.
Because she’s not my friend.
She was forcing the friendship.
I was constantly drawing non verbal boundaries.
She was not taking no for an answer.
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When someone calls you home and you decline their invitation once or twice, a normal person would stop asking.
She was asking me again and again and again.
Non stop every single time we spoke.
She asked me 8 times.
She wasn’t interested in the friendship.
She just wanted to fuck me.
Whatever she was feeling was para social.
She used to look at me with her mouth open and eyes bulging out and force me to go to her house.
She was constantly forcing me and start moaning.
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When I got to know her true colours and true intentions, I cut her off.
When I was not complying she started behaving sadistic and punishing me for it.
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She was not understanding my non verbal boundaries.
So I said it verbally.
I said,
“I’m sorry I don’t make friends easily. I don’t trust people easily. I take a lot of time. That’s why I deleted your number and unfollowed you. Don’t feel bad.”
I was extremely polite.
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She clearly knew I was not interested.
When I rejected her, it hurt her ego.
Which is what caused the drama and the ultimate showdown.
She was not taking no for an answer even after I said it verbally.
She was sticking to me like a parasite and a leech.
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When I rejected her, she spread slander.
The next time I went there she approached me again even after I clearly said that I’m not interested verbally.
She attacked me because of jealousy.
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rachana rajan <3 