Another thing with Chinthu is that.
He has a habit of leaving before he gets left.
This stems from his past experiences.
So if in case he was really enquiring.
When I confronted him.
He doesn’t have the ability to work through the conflict or take accountability.
Hence he pushed me away to protect his ego.
Because he has a habit of pushing people away before they can leave him.
He really needs to work on himself.
This is what I have noticed and observed from my conversations with him.
I always study people silently.
He is just a casual friend whom I spoke to sometimes.
We were close but we don’t speak that often.
I gave it back nicely because he hurt me first.
So I hurt him back equally.
I don’t need someone like this in my life.
For me to fight for a relationship or friendship there should be something between us.
If I have enough reasons to fight for someone.
I definitely will.
When someone casual is not interested, I don’t beg or fight.
I hurt his ego and blocked him.
I didn’t mean what I said though.