Note.

Another thing with Chinthu is that.

He has a habit of leaving before he gets left.

This stems from his past experiences.

So if in case he was really enquiring.

When I confronted him.

He doesn’t have the ability to work through the conflict or take accountability.

Hence he pushed me away to protect his ego.

Because he has a habit of pushing people away before they can leave him.

He really needs to work on himself.

This is what I have noticed and observed from my conversations with him.

I always study people silently.


He is just a casual friend whom I spoke to sometimes.

We were close but we don’t speak that often.

I gave it back nicely because he hurt me first.

So I hurt him back equally.

I don’t need someone like this in my life.


For me to fight for a relationship or friendship there should be something between us.

If I have enough reasons to fight for someone.

I definitely will.

When someone casual is not interested, I don’t beg or fight.

I hurt his ego and blocked him.

I didn’t mean what I said though.