Note.

In mid of 2022.

I had a really bad fight with father.

He was torturing me brutally.

So I ran to my sister’s house.

I was fucked up.

I went there and started to cry in front of them because I couldn’t handle it.

Brother in law started dumping unsolicited advices on me.

Instead of empathizing or asking what happened.

He said,

It is not my age to cry.

I should not cry in front of people, I should cry alone.

He also said I should never speak about my problems to anyone.

He said everyone notices everything and he has seen me shout at my parents.

And how wrong that is.

He started smiling and said he doesn’t like my Instagram and he hates the reels I was making.

He said I never learn from my mistakes. (He was referring to my Instagram post with psycho divorcee and the guy with an ugly dick)

He also said how I should focus on getting promoted.

He started bragging about how much he has grown because he left wipro and joined another company.

He was smiling the entire time he was saying these things.

He didn’t ask me what happened or why I was crying.

I got up and said bye.

And left.

I didn’t explain myself.

I was in my company for only 3 years back then.

Brother in law quit wipro after more than 5 years.

FYI.

He was bragging about that.

Anyway.

Towards the end of 2022.

When I was asking for answers from my family.

I went to sister’s house and brother in law closed the door on my face.

He said, he doesn’t want me to talk about these things in his house.

When father fell sick in 2023.

Brother in law came home and said.

My family is crazy.

He was referring to me btw.

The reason I’m talking about this incident is because

brother in law has always dumped unsolicited advices on me the entire duration that I have known him.

He has never asked me what happened or tried to empathize with me.

My success would have closed his mouth and opened his eyes.