Dudley’s father has never cared much for my mother all these years.
Like ever.
He has always treated mother poorly.
He remembers mother only when he needs money.
He has always prioritised and given importance to his relatives in kerala.
Now that things are looking good for us. He has been reaching out to her often.
And suddenly giving her money.
He has never done these things till date.
So yeah.
When I spoke about my boundaries on new year’s day.
Mother clearly knows I’m right.
But her stance was to support her brother.
Because she’s scared her side of the family will abandon her and stop speaking to her.
So she took his side and abused me.
She doesn’t want him to feel awkward and get hurt.
Even though he’s clearly wrong here.
Because she doesn’t want to lose them.
She’s taking me for granted because she knows I’m not going anywhere.
She and everyone reading this clearly understands and knows he is wrong.
He behaved like a flesh eating vulture.
We don’t have that kinda connection and rapport for him to cross my boundaries.
When he clearly knows that I don’t like him.
Please don’t support the perpetrators.
They need to be held accountable.
Don’t enable their behaviour.
rachana rajan <3 