Note.

If you are a friend.

Behave like one.

Don’t ask me questions when you already know the answers.

Don’t play twisted games.

I don’t appreciate the acting.

I’m not interested in playing pretend.


If my community really considers me as a friend.

They will respect my personal space and boundaries.

They won’t encroach on my personal space and boundaries.

They won’t approach me.

They won’t trouble me intentionally.

They will understand the fact that it’s not humanly possible for me to be friends with everyone.

They will understand the fact that on a personal front I’m a public figure.

They will give me the respect and convention of a public figure.

They won’t gaslight me and play twisted games.


Because this is what friends do.

If you are a friend.

Behave like one.


If you encroach on my personal space and boundaries.

That makes you a creepy fan.

If you do it in the name of love, I have to get a restraining order.

Any kinda shady unethical behaviour.

I’m going to be extremely vocal about it.

Because I have been extremely clear about my part.

My boundaries are non-negotiable.