Note.

Father feels that if mother doesn’t speak about these things.

Her BP will maintain in normal.

If she speaks about her worries.

He feels she will feel fucked.

Also, he gets fucked listening to it.

This is his logic to maintain peace at home.

No matter how many times I try to explain to him.

That he should let mother speak till her heart’s content and let it all out.

And get it out of her system.

It doesn’t get through to him.

I keep asking him not to say “go die” when mother says that she feels like she’s dying.

He just doesn’t listen.