The main reason father and mother fight is because.
There is just one huge room that is the hall.
It contains the open kitchen.
Mom is constantly speaking while she is in the kitchen.
Father will be watching TV and on the phone.
They both don’t really have a space of their own to be alone and recharge and chill.
So when mother is constantly speaking while father is in the middle of his “me time” he gets irritated and asks her to stop.
Because she sometimes brings up random topics and gets emotional out of the blue.
Father won’t be in the mindspace to listen to her at that point.
I guess there’s always a time and place to talk about things.
You cannot encroach on someone’s space constantly when they just want to be left alone.
This is the main reason for that particular conflict.
When mom is watching something on her phone or speaking to someone.
She goes to the balcony for “me time”.
Even she gets irritated when we speak to her during that time.
At the end of the day.
Everyone just wants a space for themselves where they can have some peace and quiet and be alone.
rachana rajan <3 