Even Chinthu.
We’ve been speaking on and off since 2022.
He has never once enquired about anything till date.
Never.
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When I texted him a few weeks back.
He intentionally asked me gaslighting questions to provoke me.
He clearly knows what he was doing.
He clearly knows it.
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In spite of that.
I was polite.
I politely told him not to do that.
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He flipped it around on me and said I’m turning everything into a conflict and he doesn’t want to be friends.
He even made a typo in that message to convey that he knows what he was doing.
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Firstly.
I was communicating a boundary.
It wasn’t a conflict.
He doesn’t even have the emotional maturity to work through that boundary with me.
I’m not interested in being friends with someone who lacks this basic ability.
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Also second.
Even if say, he was really enquiring.
He doesn’t have the ability to handle a boundary maturely and he pushed me away to protect his ego.
Because he doesn’t care enough.
If someone doesn’t care.
Neither do I.
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I retaliated and blocked him.
He was just a casual person in my life anyway.
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