Note.

When I started dating in 2019.

I was on all the apps.

Initially it was really hard.

Because I was new to it and I didn’t know how it works.

Once I got the hang of it, it became easier to handle.

What helped is that.

I didn’t see it as dating. I saw it as socialising.

I was using those apps like social media apps.

Casually swiping like I use Instagram.

Also, I was speaking casually to everyone.

Without any expectations.

I rejected most of them on the first call/video call.

Some of them rejected me too in the initial days.

Out of all the men I met.

I rejected most of them after the first date.

I have also walked away on the first date if I don’t like them.

That’s how I spoke to around 250 men and didn’t give up.

It was really hard and exhausting.

I’m glad that I didn’t give up.

Because I met Ginny.