I’ve never seen Varsha Vinod before because we started speaking during covid.
In her Instagram pictures she was wearing a kurti and had long hair.
When she spoke to me at the office in 2022.
She had short hair and she was wearing western clothes.
So I couldn’t recognise her.
When she introduced herself.
I said, “I couldn’t recognise you, you look different.”
I meant it positively as a compliment.
But she projected her insecurity.
Recently when I went to my sister’s house.
I asked her if she has clothes that she doesn’t wear anymore.
Because I don’t have enough clothes to wear at home.
So she gave me all the old clothes that don’t fit her.
My sister and I exchange clothes all the time.
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I saw Dudley as my sister.
That’s why I asked her if she wanted my clothes.
I bought them during covid for office but I wasn’t going to the office.
I was wfh.
But Dudley was regularly going to office.
Also.
I changed my dressing sense after meeting Ginny.
My clothes were brand new and expensive.
So I asked Dudley if she wanted them.
Because she’s my sister.
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But she never saw me as a sister.
She was always extremely jealous of me.
She was in a toxic competition with me since childhood.
Because she was raised that way by her mother.
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Hence when I asked her.
She projected her insecurities and jealousy and competition.
Pettigrew was constantly speaking about her uniform since day 2.
She used to wear men’s uniform with a stain on it.
She was speaking about it regularly and drawing attention to it.
So when her uniform changed, I complimented it as a good gesture to empathize with her.
Because grey was my favourite colour.
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But she was lusting on me since day 1.
She projected her feelings and placed sexual meaning to that innocent incident.
When I rejected her.
She took that incident out of context, exaggerated it and made it into sexual assault.